As I have mentioned already in the pages of this website, I have been visualizing, affirming, making internal representations and being influenced on a sub-conscious level my whole life, creating the results I have been getting. Like nearly all human beings I have been doing it automatically, so sometimes those results have been what I want and sometimes not. Well that is gradually changing as I become more conscious of how I create my reality and move toward doing so in a more purposeful and successful way. What is important to make clear however is that sometimes you will get results that you don’t desire, but it is the way you view those results as they happen, not just with hindsight that will transform your notion of what is good or bad for you with a much greater opportunity for you to maintain inner peace and happiness throughout your life.
The last few years have been a real journey of self-discovery for me. In 2002 I ventured into the conversation of transformation, which was all totally new and very weird to me at the time. Now more of what I experienced and shared with others falls into place more and more as I see that really all of this and the notion that we all want, in some way to find, success, happiness and to end our general suffering all lies in some kind of natural state that we lost at some point, but can be described as being able to perceive reality directly rather than only through the limits of our physical senses.
More recently I came across this process of neural reconditioning, but in effect is another way of presenting part of what I was already studying. Over the last few years I have realized certain events and outcomes that occurred that I can see I attracted, created, manifested, whatever you want to describe it as and now my intention is to have this ability to see such things as they happen, so as to become a great orchestrator of the life of my dreams and too I hope I will be able to instill that power in others, simply by sharing my experience.
Examples of success/positive results.
In 2003 I attended a program called Moving through the barriers to love. I was in the middle of a roller coaster part of my life at that time with issues around whether I was a lovable of desirable person, unhappy with my situation and in the process of breaking all of this down and finding out who I really was behind all the mess, so to speak. One of the exercises during this program was to share with the group a description my ideal partner. I was single at the time and had resigned myself to the fact that I was going to be stuck single for the rest of my life and I hadn’t really ever thought of what my ideal woman would be like.
Still I was game and without knowing what I was going to say next, just decided to describe whatever came to me. What happened next was amazing, but not as amazing as the realization I had 3 years later. Anyway, back to the description I made in 2003. I described a woman with exotic looks, dark skin, dark hair, like a princess from a faraway land. I then went on to describe what it was like being together, going into details of the sorts of things that we enjoyed together and the kinds of things that made us laugh and loved to share. Then I got to the point of describing my ideal, everyday scenario with my dream lady and I wasn’t prepared for what then happened. I explained how our typical time at home was spent just laughing and joking together. I then burst into tears. I could really feel it. I must have hit a nerve and got to a real hidden desire that was so rooted in my soul that it was always there, but never been revealed to my conscious mind.
I now realize that I was visualizing; painting a clear, detailed picture of a part of my life that I dreamed of having and brought me ultimate joy and happiness. The way we were encouraged to describe the situation too was as if it was already a reality, so I also realize that I was making an affirmation and by the nature of that 3 day workshop and being more open and less ego-driven, the channel to my authentic self, which knew all of this was open and I allowed what I truly knew, felt and desired to come through.
Well I forgot all about it soon after that. I traveled around South East Asia in 2004 and I met the woman there who I got on with really well, but lost touch with soon after I returned to England, but we got back in touch toward the end of 2005 when she called me out of the blue. Things developed from there and in 2007 I remembered that incredible occurrence in 2003. This woman was the woman of my dreams in every detail as I had described and today I am living in that far away land and we are married. She is pretty much a carbon copy of what I had visualized that day, which proves to me the power to create our own lives is huge and totally within our grasp.
Make Success a Habit - Mind over Matter, Heart over Mind
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