How do I do That?
It seems the real secret about how you create your own reality is not the fact that you do and not even how you do because we have access to enough teachings and information, both available for free and paid for that tell us what we need to do in order to create the life we want.
What the real secret is then, you could say is how? How do you actually apply the principles of changing your thoughts and your feelings in order to become more tuned into the reality that you desire?
This is the one thing that, if it could be bottled and sold as an instant remedy then it would sell more units than Microsoft Windows and Coca Cola put together.
It is a stumbling block for most people when purposefully trying to find their hidden beliefs that are working against the achievement of their goals and replacing them with new beliefs that assist and take you with the flow rather than against it. Affirmations are made day in, day out and nothing changes. Vision boards are made and gazed at longingly for hours on end and nothing changes.
I can understand you thinking in such a situation. "What kind of goofy logic is this. It doesn’t work!". I have a suggestion, which I hope will help.
STOP TRYING! Forget the goals, forget the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. The truth is that all the while you are focusing on what you want (well done that’s good) if nothing is happening (and it won’t happen in an instant, most of the time) it is likely because your focus is not where you think it is. Any tiny amount of emotion-charged thought or feeling that hints at the realization of your goal not being already achieved RIGHT NOW is slowing down the realization of it or stopping it completely.
Yes you can make your affirmations and you can keep them in mind as often as possible, this will help you more naturally develop the feelings you require to activate source energy into doing the rest of the job for you, but here is the key. Mind set is one thing, but it is useless without Heart Set. I got that phrase from Dr. Robert Anthony, so it’s only fair to credit him with that.
How many times do you hear people say they have their heart set on something? That is what you need. If you know with certainty what you desire then you can forget about how to achieve it. Instead work daily on how you feel, right now like your goal is achieved already and you have the feelings you want due to that achievement. The feeling always comes first. It is the feeling that is the request and maybe the request needs to be made a few times before the message is clear, made clear by the robustness of the feeling.
So my advice for today is to get "The Feeling" That’s what I call it. You know what it is and you know why you want it, so get into it and stay with it for as long as you can and as often as you can because that is what your job is in manifesting your desires.
In fact focus on this and forget action for now. If an opportunity arises that is a match for your achievement of your desire then you’ll know if and what action to take. You’ll even know when to take it because getting the feeling not only sends out the signal to the Universe in you it also opens the channel of communication between you and your intuition, which always knows better than your head does.
Try it. The results can be amazingly effective and fast!
Make Success a Habit - Mind over Matter, Heart over Mind
Avoid breaking more New Year Resolutions. Break the cycle instead and be inspired to create the life you really desire.
