Maintaining an Attractive Force
If you want to achieve something that means the world to you then you have to overcome limitations in your current thinking. I’m not talking about the thoughts you are conscious of, but the ones that are actually running the show. The ones that are sneaking around the back and doing the deals on your behalf.
If those thoughts are in sync with what you truly want then you are going to have no problem achieving what you want, seemingly effortlessly. However, most of the time, the reason we desire something so badly is because we haven’t achieved it before and most likely haven’t because our subconscious is acting on a different set of instructions to what we say we want; instructions that we are continuously giving it by the way when we say things like ‘I’ll never achieve that‘.
So how do you overcome something that appears out of your control? Well there is not one tip here that covers it all, so this is just another part of the equation, but in order to instill a new level of expectation, you have to feed your subconscious with ‘Evidence’ of it.
What this means is that if you want to increase your income, move to a bigger house, become a world champion or whatever then you have to think big. Much bigger than the current level you are at. If you increase your target by a so-called realistic amount then you aren’t really instilling any new level of belief and whilst you may achieve that small improvement, you will still find your overall experience of things as they were: In a nutshell, still longing for something.
This is not to say that life is only about big money, big trophies or big fame. Not at all – You may genuinely not desire money, fame or materialistic things, but desire an amazing relationship with your spouse for the rest of your life or the ability to help as many people as possible and there is nothing wrong with big love or big joy!
Going back to attachment to the outcome the more desperately you want something, the more likely you are to push it away, so it’s not a question of ‘trying to focus’ all day on your goal. Think big enough for it to feel a little uncomfortable. Those goals you may think about but then negate because they are just ‘too ambitious’. As long as it is humanly possible then it can be achieved.
The best way to get started on that is to make sure you are clear about it, set it, raise the bar and let it go. Get on with whatever is filling your life today and revisit your goal in the form of an affirmation.
Make Success a Habit - Mind over Matter, Heart over Mind
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