You get what you get by feeling a certain way. No matter what the situation, the way you feel will affect the outcome, which includes your journey to success.
Your dream life has to be tended to now as if it already exists otherwise it will remain in the future forever and you will always be left wanting and waiting.
STOP TRYING! Forget the goals, forget the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. The truth is that all the while you are focusing on what you want (well done that’s good) if nothing is happening (and it won’t happen in an instant, most of the time) it is likely because…